DR. Yasir Qadhi said:
“What a man really wants from his wife is RESPECT.
If a man earns respect from his wife, if he feels that his wife is looks up to him, he feels that he is in charge. And Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala has said in the Qur’an:
“Men are qowwam over women” (An-Nisa: 34)
That means men are caretakers and providers of the women.
For a man, if his wife doesn’t respect him, who else will? Conversely, if his wife respect him, look up to him, then he can CHALLANGE the world”
Jadi para suami itu senang dijadikan sandaran oleh istrinya. Justru akan menyakiti hati sang suami jika sang istri memilih untuk mandiri terutama dalam hal yang menjadi tanggung jawab suami.
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